Heya All,
I found this website the other day and i thought it might be a good place to bring up something very personal, please bare with me...
Ok, here's my deal; I'm a 10 year C4 quad (i think i'm incomplete, but no one has ever told me for certain:), I have sensation till about 2 inches above my elbows and about an inch above my nipples...i have zero sensation below these areas and my shoulders are the only things i can move.
Obviously, sex is a big thing on my mind. Over the last 10 years as a quad i haven't gone 'all the way' with a women, a lot of passion and foreplay but no intercourse. I figured i can't feel a damn thing down there so what's the point. About a week ago however things changed when a girl i've been seeing for about 3 months wanted to have sex...normally a cause for celebration for most men but i was freaking out...i just didn't know what would happen!
I mean, i wake some mornings with an erection and i get one whenever someone touches my penis but i was told by the docs it was a 'reflex' thing. But, just to be sure i popped a 20mg Cialis tablet in the morning in anticipation of the 'big night',
So, in bed everything is going great and after some 'stimulation' i got a semi decent erection...BUT that's it!!!! Nothing good enough that could do the deed...worse yet, less then a minute after 'stimulation' stopped, i was back to normal - IT WAS SOOOOOOOOO EMBARRASSING!!!!!! Of course, the miss kept telling me that 'it's ok' and that 'it's no big deal'...but i felt, and still feel soooooo bad. I never thought that would happen!!!!!
So, can anyone PLEASE advise...has anyone used better meds or meds that work differently? Please, don't respond if you going to tell me 'intercourse is not that important' or that 'intimacy and finding out what works for you' is what matters - this post is about erections and how to get, and maintain one!
Thanks:) Any help appreciated!!